I haven't been able to get a date yet and I am 20, should I lower my standards in men?

  • Not at all, u shouldn't lower your standards
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  • yeah it is time to i guess
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Most Helpful Guy

  • if you have been trying with no success yes, if you're just waiting... well keep looking

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    • are my looks an issue?

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    • judge from the cover pic, my hair isn't tied there

    • u look like a pretty indian girl, nothing special but pretty so i guess its okay you just need lower standards, not too low but just enough

Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't worry about it, i'm 23 and i've been on a total of two dates... and i was 21 before my first one so no worries lol you're still young

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What Guys Said 11

  • It depends how realistic your standards are and are you willing to lower them (settle)? Another thing you could do is make the first move and ask guys you like out, don't wait for them to ask you.

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  • ha ha ha... Is it yours Pic.. Don't make fool to others use your own pic...
    if it is yours still you are making fool... you know why

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  • Nah, just keep working on yourself.

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  • It could be because you're not datable... Have you thought about evaluating yourself

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  • If your standards are stupid, then yes, lower them.
    Or not, idc.

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    • tall, dark, handsome is what i like

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    • i like sex more than anything but shhhh creeps on the internet shouldn't know though saying that is probably futile now -_-

    • I like sex too. It's cool to have that desire.
      Have you learned to spot men who share your desire.
      I have the skill to sniff out sex freaks (the good kind), and it never fails.

  • depends on how high your standards are right now

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  • Not at all.

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  • you should higher your standards instead... .

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  • a lot of people have standards that may be too high.
    I know I do.
    If a relationship is something you crave that much, lower standards might need to happen.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Do NOT lower your standards. I have worked my way up from lack of standards. STANDARDS ARE GOOD.
    Just don't expect them to be Gods, they are still men after all.

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