I have a lot of trouble with girls, yet I've always considered myself at least averagely attractive. And in light of how many guys are overweight with trucker hats and/or neckbeards, I'd almost consider myself slightly above average. Yet I still struggle. Just how attractive, if at all, am I? And why am I having so much trouble with girls if I am no worse looking than any other average guy? Is it my confidence? Realistically if I can work on my confidence, what league would I be in? I hate to come off as arrogant, but I feel like I have the potential to pursue really high league girls if I could just work on my confidence. But maybe there is something about my appearance that is off putting. A detailed rating would be appreciated.
Most Helpful Girl
You are goodlooking, but you don't look approachable if I'm honest. In the pic where you're actually smiling, you look nicer. I think the combination of buzz cut, light skin, and serious expression comes across as intense, like a serious army dude or deep south "redneck" so if you soften up even just by expression, you may notice a difference.
Also, going into dating with the mindset of approaching high league girls... that attitude doesn't fly for anyone except high league girls just so you know. What kind of relationship do you want? A loving, bonded one or sexual attraction mostly? It will help guide you as to what you can do differently. But your looks are fine otherwise.0
Most Helpful Guy
A lot depends on your personality, the (first) impression you make, sense of humor (if any), your height, etc... a. k. a. stuff we can't see on these pictures.
Also, yeah, you are not below average, but I'm guessing you're also not interested in girls who are below average so those things cancel out.0