So I can get into the friendzone with a lot of women. However, I can never get to the next stage - the date zone.
I see people all the time go on dates and some do it several times a week with different people.
I can't even get a woman to see me that way.
Am I that repulsive? I don't think I'm good looking in anyway. But I carry myself with confidence and don't project that feeling.
Okay the third one, I'm tired, drowsy eyes.
I am only 22. But people say I look 50. Do you think women don't want to date me for that reason because their first impression of me is that I'm 40-50 years old?
Should I only date women who are 40-50 years old?
I don't want to ask for a rate... But, maybe this time.
I just need some advice, because nothing I do works.
I kind of feel like I need to change my personality.
Maybe I should be bad...
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like you're being put in the 'friend zone' by women, or having them not reciprocate interest, because you may come off a bit insecure.
A large part of your write-up is giving random potential reasons why women may not be interested. You supposedly look 40-50 years old? Drowsy eyes?
Dude. Rather than looking for why women are not interested, why don't you just dedicate your time/energy towards working on improving yourself as a person. Find some hobbies, chat with more people. I guarantee that women will generally find a guy who's sociable and at ease around friends to be more attractive than one who analyzes their appeal down to putting 'drowsy eyes' as the main culprit.1
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Most Helpful Guy
you're a good looking guy. Despite the comments I believe your hair is fine. You got a cool style so I'm not quite sure why you're being friend zoned perhaps it's how you come off to women.
Think about it like this... If you see a woman and she's dressed in a purple Dora outfit, with flowers in her hair but she's around your age but the only problem is she's really immature and childish chances are you may not be attracted to her or maybe you might be... point is, people have preferences we all have a type whether we like to admit it or not and you just might not be the type of guy for these women you're meeting but they like you enough to want you to be their friend.
What I want you to do is follow your dreams, pursue your passion so you can enjoy life doing what you love to do and then you will attract that special woman who's got that same passion or interests as you. Good luck.1