I need to come to terms with that fact that I'm heavy & unattractive. I hate my body.
Most Helpful Guy
Are you stupid because there isn't anything wrong with you except for the fact that you put yourself down. You look fine an you need to stop mentally hurting yourself like that. Also stop taking pictures of yourself in hotel restrooms an posting it online because as far as pictures go it's no good and compleatly demeans the art of photography. Now keep in mind anyone can pick a part of themselves and call themselves crap hell if I picked one part of myself I could come up with negatives but I have many more positives than negatives about myself. You need to stop picking one part that you don't like and calling yourself bad things that's wrong because one part dosent mater when you as a whole are beautiful. So what you complane about your stomach area that dosent make you ugly or heavy it's just one part of the beautiful whole that is your body so stop treating yourself like crap for nothing. Your obsesed with this concept that your stomach area isn't 100% flat so you can't be beautiful but guys don't give a crap about that. Now of you don't like something fix it for yourself but know that even as you are your beautiful and that you should never see yourself as less. Don't determine yourself by what others think an work on your own self worth a bit more. That's my opinion and two cents about it. Good luck.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Can't tell if you're ugly since we can't see your face. The body doesn't make a person ugly, the face does. That being said, you do have a belly but it doesn't make you look bad. It's not really that big. I used to have a belly like that too, but I just worked out and ate healthy. It doesn't happen overnight. It takes time and you also can't spot reduce. You have to lose weight everywhere, and given my own experience, the fat is going to have off your stomach last. What I did was a combination of cardio, strength training and a healthy diet. Just make sure you don't starve yourself.0