So I'm a 17yo girl and probably like many other teens I have issues regarding my appereance. I'm pretty short but I don't see that as I problem. In the upper part of my body I'm pretty skinny and I also have medium boobs. however the problem starts in the lower part. I have a pretty big ass, however it also looks good as I have received compliments regarding it. But I feel like my thighs are huge. I know they are not that big but compared to all my friends they seem really big. My bff is tall and skinny and she is a model and the other one is short but also skinny. I have tried losing weigh but I can't seem to be able to do it. And my problem starts with the need of confirmation. I have never had a boyfriend and only 2-3guys that have ever kind of liked me. And I know I may be superficial but I'm outgoing and nice so I think that the problem starts with my appereance. That is why I also started to dislike my face. I have a round face, pretty plump lips brown eyes and I wear glasses. I have never really been told I was ugly but all the girl people say are pretty are the total opposite of me. In addition when I laugh I consider myself really ugly and that is why I try to stay serious most of the time. I lnow that it may be a pretty superficial problem but I am starting to feel worse and worse.
what do you think i could do to like myself more? thanks
Most Helpful Guy
Firstly, don't stay serious. Laugh! Smile! A laugh and a smile are infectious, and makes you attractive. Attractive ladies get attention. Attention boosts your confidence.
Secondly, you don't sound ugly at all. If you want to lose wieght, it isn't difficult. It just needs a small change in eating habits. Diets fail because they are unsustainable. They don't work long term. Simple changes do work, because you don't notice them. It may be just 1lb or 1/2 kilo each week, but it soon adds up! I'm 40lbs down over an 18 month period, back to what I should be.
If you need help losing weight, I'll talk you through it here.
Take it from me, you do sound JUST FINE!0
Most Helpful Girl
It's normal to be insecure about your looks, I am too. No matter how good you look there will always be something you're not happy with but you know what? Other people usually never notice those things anyway. From what you described, you don't sound ugly at all. Just take care of yourself, eat healthy and exercise and you'll be the best version of yourself (appearance wise). Knowing that your fit and healthy usually boosts your confidence and trust me, confidence is attractive. That's probably what you're lacking. Guys notice that you're insecure and that could be the reason they're not showing interest.0