Please answer no one answers my questions :(
I've never been approached before, I watched my sister get flirted with in front of me, the guy totally ignored me, then on the same day some guys driving a truck honked at my sister as they drove by. I feel very ugly and unattractive. I got all sad but she didn't even notice why I was sad it was so obvious. The girl even has a boyfriend, I literally have to pray to get a boyfriend or do some type of weird love spell thing. Everytime I like someone they avoid me and ignore me and it's pissing me off. I don't even feel good enough to be a girl.
No mean comments please
Most Helpful Guy
Well as I have been told many times, maybe the problem is you need to project more confidence. Next time your sister gets hit on act like you don't notice and if you are hit on drop hints that you are interested but never seem too emotionally swayed in either direction wether you are hit on or not. Chances are you are not ugly but guys may find it hard to approach you based on the level of self confidence and the mood that you put out. The main thing that makes a girl approachable to me is if she 1) seems friendly and 2) seems like she has an interest in me. So remain friendly and drop a few hints on some of your crushes and you should see a difference in the number of people noticing you.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm beginning to think that too... I'm more of a spiritual person, but I don't really care what people think. The person who truly wants to be with you will stay around and support you in your hard times. I'm sorry that you feel this way, I believe that you have a beautiful soul and I'm sure there is someone out there truly!!! You may not like hearing this but life is just beginning. You will have a lot of time to find that special someone to travel through life together. :) Also, I wanted to comment on how you're feeling ignored. When I tell someone that I like them, I'm mostly the one that tries to ignore them (I do this subconciously) But if you want to have someone by you're side, you have to fight for it. People are still growing CONSISTENTLY! You just have to fight and hope for the best and if it doesn't work, then it was never going to be yours. I know that sounds hard but it's the cold truth. I really hope it gets better for you! :)1