I am a mid-twenties celibate and want to know why I don't get the girls I want. I see around these forums many bitter and frustrated men who say it is all about looks and money while there are also girls on here who say that they are not like that and what they really like is personality.
I do not want to post my face but I do want to know if I am too skinny for the girls I want or if I am considered to have a good shape.
Here is me flexed:
Here is me relaxed (to me, I look skinny when relaxed, but you can see there is still some slight definition around abs and pecs):
Also here is an example of the ideal woman:
I say ideal, because obviously this kind of woman is very high appeal, so it's unlikely I would get that, even if I went crazy at the gym.
For me, I think maybe this would be more realistic - an above average girl but not supermodel material or anything. Hard to find accurate pics and these girls are still very good looking, but with these you get the gist:
Let me know what you think.
- Yes, way too skinny to pick up these girls you want9% (2)10% (2)9% (4)Vote
- Not skinny, but some extra kg (of muscle) would not hurt17% (4)33% (7)25% (11)Vote
- No, you look fine: what you need is self-confidence65% (15)43% (9)55% (24)Vote
- More muscles AND self-confidence9% (2)14% (3)11% (5)Vote