Since January, I haven't shaved. I've also gone pretty hardcore in powerlifting. As a result, I now have a massive frame and a beard.
I'm finding myself getting hit on by a lot of gay guys. Even when I post online single, seeking w4m (by posting in the m4w section, so it's not that), I get mostly spam, some gay guys that ask me if I'm bi, and little else. I guess I look like what the homosexual community call "bears".
Now, aren't women into that look? Is it too intimidating? Too masculine? I'm not defined at all, I only train for functional strength, not aesthetics. I don't care what I look like, just how strong and efficient I am. I. E. I'm a man. I'm thinking that women these days mostly go for metrosexual guys.
- I don't careVote A
- Prefer thin frameVote B
- Prefer average frameVote C
- Prefer large frameVote D
- Love bearsVote E
Most Helpful Girl
Bear look is ultra unattractive.
Beards are gross, especially if used to cover a double chin.
You don't look that in-shape there. Looks like you're sucking your stomach in and flexing your arm. And as much as I love arms, the rest of the body has to look good too.
I prefer muscular dudes with no beards basically.2
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Most Helpful Guy
The bears a nice touch and your strength is impressive but women want to be able to see results, a guy like this Jack Lalanne is what women like, ripped, muscular and strong by the way he was one of the most powerful and strongest men on the entire planet. And was much stronger then you and most power lifters and bodybuilders in his prime and even up till his 70s. He was the epitome of what a man should strive to be mentally and physically and that's what women want.