I've been called it to my face, and yeah I believe it somewhat.
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Most Helpful Guy
I don't really know if I ever was told anything in regards to my looks growing up. I just kind of did my own thing and managed to get not many compliments or insults on my looks.
I don't know how, but at some point in high school I ended up translating this to "people don't want to associate with me... Probably since I'm ugly." At first, I tried to shake it off and say something like "that's alright. I'll make do with whatever. I'll make it by," but I wasn't quite satisfied with that. That spiraled into at some point a depression stemming from loneliness and feeling of self loathing. Naturally, I thought I was pretty ugly at that point-- even if someone were to compliment me I thought they were just trying to be friendly and didn't mean it.
However, I'm better since then. It's not like I think I'm the epitome of awesomeness, but I think I'm perhaps a little higher than average in terms of looks :)4
Most Helpful Girl
I was called fat and ugly by a boy in middle school and I was devastated. But then he got arrested in high school lollll sucks to suck! People who do that are usually shitty humans - do not listen to them, I know it's hard, especially at your age. It'll matter a lot less when you're older because as you get older you get more comfortable with your body and who you are. But really, whoever is being mean to you, the problem is within them not you - something has to be really off in someone's life for them to decide to be so mean as to just straight up tell someone they're ugly. Stay strong girl!1