I have a relatively small butt. My body is proportionate but I am naturally slim. I do all I can to hide my butt, long shirts, tying sweaters around my waist, wearing skirts etc. Today for the first time in a long time I wore an outfit that showed my butt and the entire day I had horrible anxiety.. I walked past a group of guys and knew that they were checking me out.. I get checked out by almost every guy I come across, since most people seem to find me attractive but this just makes me more anxious since I KNOW they are looking and I can't help but to feel ashamed and wish I was invisible. When I was still in high school I covered my butt every single day. One day it was super windy and my security blanket (this obnoxiously long flannel) flew up and my butt was revealed *gasp. The guy behind me commented that they were surprised I actually have a "cute" butt and then he said kinda.. we always joked around with each other and since that was the only instance that a guy I'm friends with saw my butt I think about it a lot and hope to god that that "kinda" was just a joke.. How do I deal with my butt anxiety? I just want to be able to wear what I want without having to worry about the hundreds of eyes that greet my ass only to be treated with disappointment. I know it's a stupid thing to worry about but in this day and age where butts seem to be oh so important I just want to feel confident in my small booty even if most guys may think it's unattractive.
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I believe that it all starts within yourself. Who cares if people are staring. It's great that you have a good looking body and you should start by believing in yourself. IF it helps, find clothes that you're also comfortable in. Having clothes that make you not only look good in but comfortable in can ease your anxiety. I understand what it feels like to have anxiety for your butt and being around crowded places. Learn to love yourself and rock your bottom. The only opinion that should matter is YOURS, by the end of the day your opinion matters most. Be more confident by straightening your back when you walk and tell yourself how good you look and believe in the good features you were blessed with, like your butt! It's okay to flaunt what you got but just don't be overly showy where your cheeks are out hun!0