So I have a few mixed girl friends, I also know quite a few mixed girls. In a nutshell, they have curvier bodies than me, wayyy prettier/exotic looking faces, hair always looks nice, & their aura basically attracts any & EVERYONE. Im definitely not darkskin, & Its not that I don't take care of myself. I exercise often, frequently take care of my health on the inside & out, I have a average personality & I try my best to keep from looking sloppy.(although I am very slim, I have no butt or boobs) But even with ALL the effort I put in, I STILL get over looked like im just their shadow & it hurts. It makes me feel disgusting, & unworthy... Is there something actually wrong with me? It not fair that "lightskin" girls get more attention...
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It might be their sense of confidence, which was initially fueled by looking somewhat exotic but then making them feel more and more and more confident which then makes that aura more and more powerful.
You see that with people. If they started off receiving so much attention when younger, their confidence can be through the roof when they're adults and they're practically magnet: everyone wants to be their friends.
Meanwhile people who lacked it can start to develop major insecurities that last all the way to adulthood.
There's like a cascading effect.
You can potentially break your cycle and become more confident and potentially enjoy some of the same attention. That glowing aura that attracts everyone isn't necessarily coming solely from physical looks (though the looks might have initially helped to make it so powerful). But I think you have to stop fixating on these girls and kind of see it as a competition.1
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