My family and friends call me gorgeous and beautiful, and I know they are biased, but female and even married/ taken male strangers compliment my features and call me beautiful, and yet no guys my age seem to even register my existence. I don't get it. I am never approached, noticed, talked to, or cared about by any guys. Am I that repulsive? I enjoy learning new things, hiking, passionate conversations, watching movies, kayaking, baking, cooking, traveling, biking, and being in beautiful places. People say I have a kind heart and a contagious smile, so am I like totally not what guys are looking for or? I'm just a little confused. I know appearance is important too, and my major pitfall would be that I'm a size 16, which doesn't help, I know, but I do actively take care of myself (exercise, and eating healthy). My hair is now waist length, thick, wavy, and dark brown. I am half Greek and German, and half Indian-Trinidadian I am also 5'11'', which I think is a problem, but is really so hard to see past? I love who I am I just wonder why guys don't like me. thanks for all the opinions, XO.
Most Helpful Guy
That hurt just reading this!!! With all respect , there's nothing about you that's wrong... you're not the problem... unfortunately for the guys you're age around you... they are the problem. Guys you're age are looking for naughty girls , not good girls. what you're feeling right now... is a direct reflection of your surroundings... it's fair to guess that if you were somewhere different , these circumstances wouldn't exist. Please don't look down at your self anymore and wonder what your possibly doing wrong... cute , pretty , and girl friend material ? And then some of the complements made you cry alittle... your making me almost have a tears... I feel you , I really do... I'm looking for a young woman myself , to start a family with , some one with the qualitys you posses. Not flirting with you though , just merely letting you know that you're a wonderfull person who needs to look out side the box. If you spend your time going foward with your self and not concentrating on boyfriends , you will be surprised how fast guys will notice you. the more you chase , the more they hide. You just go along about your business and watch how fast a guy will notice you... good guys notice you when you're not on the hunt. sooo... Sorry to bore you!!! SMILE , you're going to be just fine... 😀 If you want to ask anything , just speek up girl... Until then...0
Most Helpful Girl
Not everyone will think your gorgeous or beautiful... maybe the guys your wanting attention from aren't worth your time in the first place did u consider that? everyone nowadays are hitting the dating sites I dunno that could be it..:they ain't noticing you Becos their to busy lookin down at their phones scrolling left or right... guys noticing women nowadays is impossible lol they can't even notice a woman model wearin painted on clothes what chance u got or anyone else got when they don't even notice a naked blonde ffs...
sign urself up to a dating site don't go mental and meet up with anyone that messages u n see how men react to u.. I will bet U will be told ur gorgeous and beautiful... it's the way things are now sweety0