Okay, in my entire life with all the different groups of friends I have hung out with, I was always the one to be ignored or not approached by any guys when we went out or were surrounded bt attractive guys. All of my friends and people I have known were and are very attractive, the girls considered hot/pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/sexy and the guys hot/sexy/handsome etc and when I'm around them I just feel ugly. Plain and simple I guess I am because everyone ignores me even though I consider everyone around me to talk to them and be nice and I'm never ignorant of a single soul. I have never let someone feel left out or unwanted somewhere. Im the one girl that puts everyone's happiness before my own.
I'm around all these beautiful amazing people and i feel dull, unwanted, and stupid, it hurts. No guy has shown interest. So I try to keep my head high and be confident in myself but it's so hard. And this isn't me just asking for attention just saying. I don't know what to do to make myself pretty even cause I'm just plain. I have deep dark brown hair and close to black brown eyes, very high cheekbones, a really defined jaw, a mocha skin color, five feet two, skinny/fit or whatever from swimming and kickboxing and yeah. That's it. Nothing special, just a bunch of hard lines all around and plain coloring. There is nohing interesting about me at all, just that I do very well in school and spend all my free time ether reading, studying, or kickboxing at the gym.
So I just wanted to know why? Why does no guy even try to talk to me or ask me to hang out or something? I'm just always seeing couples happy and my friends meeting all these attractive guys and I'm not. I feel so ugly and sad about it I dont know what to do. How to deal with it. Should I even consider myself average looking because at this point I'm the most hideous thing I and others have seen. Again I'm not asking for attention, I just need to find a way to deal and find a way to be happy with myself.
Most Helpful Guy
dont stress yourself about this
there always must be someone looking for you and have crush on you
maybe you just dont notice them
keep smiling and confident and dont try hard to take guys attention
just be yourself
try to hang out alone in popular public places in your city and be normal
good luck ;)1