I'm a 21 year old guy who has been doing fine until i turned 19 then i realised I've never had a girlfriend in my life. It had only recently dawned on me i have friends who go out with cute girls all the time i tell myself "i want that too" i don't mean going out with a different girl everytime i mean actually have a girl who is beautiful. So i said to myself "I'm going to make changes" i started dressing a lot nicer, got good haircuts that suited me and i worked out I'm in healthy shape i shave do things that will make me look presentable. And then i went out approach a lot of girls not desperate either i took my time but in the end they all failed and made me feel insecure about myself. I had been rejected 7 times i felt discouraged to approach more girls then i would see my friend's with their girlfriends having a good time as i watched with insecurity and hopelessness. Is it because I'm ugly? is that what it is i wish there was a way i could change my face i know it sounds ridiculous but that's how i feel i have even felt thoughts of suicide not just from girls but from other thing's. Why is it so hard to get a girlfriend? My approach is alway's good i know how to start conversations I'm polite and well mannered also respectful but in the end i think I'm rejected because I'm ugly. And i see some girls with their boyfriends and they look goodlooking it makes me feel even worse I'm not asking for sympathy i just want to know if I'm ugly, average but not goodlooking i know I'm not goodlooking so that's out of the picture anyway's thank you for time to read this i appreciate it.
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You're not ugly. You're average and I think you will find someone someday.0