Okay. I'm 18 years old and I am fat and black. I consider those terrible things to be. Everywhere I go I feel like everyone is staring at either my stomach or my ugly face. I don't know what to do because my friends always get asked out on dates and always have someone in their inbox saying how beautiful they are. I am always the third wheel when I hang out with them. I just don't know what to do with my life because I'm just not attractive enough to hang out with them. Guys always go after them. I just feel like it's because I'm fat or black or both.
Most Helpful Guy
im sorry to hear/read that, i dont know what to say, i dont know what you look like so i can't really help you, maybe your beautiful but guys are afraid to approach, have you tried approaching them, i suggest trying that instead of waiting around for guys to do everything which doesn't always work.2
Most Helpful Girl
First things first, being fat or black does not make you ugly at all so get that out of your beautiful head...
I've also suffered from shaming myself because I've always thought that im too fat and ugly to get a boyfriend... but here's the thing, there's no such thing as being ugly!
Once your learn to love your body, then others will love it too!
I've noticed many of the younger guys like skinny twigs but dont look into their personality, and only use then for sex, and sometimes same goes for girls against guys,,,
Your time will come, i can't talk bc rn im in a sticky situation where a guy claimed to think im beautiful and cute and now, some days he doesn't even reply to my snaps, what is this hahah
But please, being fat or black doesn't make you ugly and im sure there are sooo many guys lining up for you, just be patient :) xoxo