well, i've felt bad for this like for a year now
i have high metabolism so it doesn't matter how much i eat i don't gain any weight
i have a ''petite'' body and i feel really bad about it because i don't feel atractive to males, it seems if you don't have curves/big boobs/butt/etc, you're not considered as a woman.
to be honest i feel ashamed of my body and i hate the fact that no matter how much i eat or exercise it won't help
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>> it seems if you don't have curves/big boobs/butt/etc, you're not considered as a woman.
For me my ideal type became slim (it wasn't always). It was after I dated a very slim and athletic woman and fell in love with her body.
It's easy to idolize bodies with giant boobs and butt since their whole body emphasizes one of the most blatant and obvious and most sexualized parts of the female body.
But it would require a blind person to see that Taylor Swift, for example, isn't a woman.
I'd say you're perfectly feminine regardless of your boob or butt size. Femininity goes all the way to bone structure. If you look at the skeleton of a man and woman, the differences are blatant and obvious. And you seem to be in reasonable shape -- excellent.
Hopefully more guys appreciate that over the bombshell figure over time. Again I still idolized the bombshell type in my youth -- back then the Pamela Anderson top-heavy type was popular. Now some more emphasis has been placed on big butts -- maybe more Kim K.
But guys who date around enough will realize that purely visual appeal and appealing to all the senses: touch, sound, smell, taste, sight all combine to make a woman beautiful.
>> i have high metabolism
As for this, someone pointed out to me that "high metabolism" is a myth. The human is a simple machine, calories in, calories spent. If you can eat a ton and you don't gain much weight, probably you're more active in some way than those around you. I used to also think I had a "high metabolism" but in retrospect I was sprinting, climbing, jumping, and riding half-pipes with a skateboard every day.0