Okay so Im really self conscious and am planning to get into shape, but its not going to happen over night. Im not here to ask for medical advice because I know that I'm slightly "overweight" which is still bad.
Recently I've scored myself a boyfriend and we are pretty touchy feely, but Im really self conscious. His felt up my leg, which was nice, and on my stomach, but I always squeeze it in so its not as bad. He hasn't mentioned anything other than noticing Im resenting his touch. Would you guys be okay if I was like this woman, or is it a turn off? Any advise on how to get over this self consciousness?
Most Helpful Guy
she is very attractive, i dare say hot (yes she turns me on)... so no don't be too self conscious about it ;)1
Most Helpful Girl
Girl, it's all about how you carry your weight. That girl in your photo is beautiful. And let's face it, he knew what your body type was when he started dating you. You have no reason to feel so self conscious. You have to stop agreeing with your negative thoughts and remember no one is scrutinizing you harder than yourself. Learn to accept and love yourself unconditionally for all that you are.1
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