(I've asked this before but without a picture) Hey.🙂 so this question is what keeps me up at night lmao. I'm a "bigger girl" but I have curves. I've recently developed a "crush" and we're gonna start hanging out and hopefully go the way I want it. But I'm really doubting myself and I've been thinking like, "he's not gonna want to be with me because I'm fat."
He's nice, a bit older than me, mixed, and superrr cute. So I guess the question is, is he gonna not be interested/give me a chance just because I'm bigger?
Ps; the picture is new and I'm currently starting a new diet in hopes I'll lose a bit of weight. I haven't done the whole dating thing and a LONG time. Oh and I'm not 18 I'm 16.
Most Helpful Guy
I think your cute but then again I like bigger girls. Some men do not. It is hard to say.
Just start giving him several physical compliments like " You look really nice today, I really like your hair like that" Or "Your arms look really good in that shirt, can I touch?"
And he will get the message that you are coming on to him and either reciprocate or back-peddle. But understand that men are very direct so if you are too subtle in your flirting he won't pick up on it. You have to give him PHYSICAL compliments, not tell him he is nice or he is funny or smart. It has to be compliments on his body or his face.
Wear tight black spandex pants like the ones girls wear at the gym. Turn around like drop your pen or whatever and see if you can catch him checking you out. Thats another good way to see if he is sexually attracted to you. Guys only stare when they like what they see. And when they like what they see they can't help but stare (if noone is looking).
Men fall in love with their eyes. Thats why being beautiful is the most important thing to a man. Its all about LOOKS.1
Most Helpful Girl
In the real world quite a bit of guys are into girls with your body structure. My body is kind of like yours just a little smaller in the waist, more hour glassy & curves in the right places and so many guys have shown interest to me lately... Surprisingly they aren't assholes. So it's possible that he can still be interested :) don't sell yourself short!3