How often should you Facebook message a crush?

I like this girl on Facebook...we have met a few times at the clubs. But I don't have her number. How often should I message her if I see her online?


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    Depends if she is messaging you back. If she is, and seems responsive, I'd say have a good convo, then wait a few days, make her eager to hear from you. And if you haven't already, ask for her number! That way you know if you are wasting your time or not.

  • Once.

  • I don"t have a fb account but I had it.I never did.But for you maybe 2-3 times a week

  • Never it'll seem as you are stalking her

    Meet her one day and just simply ask her out

  • None. Unless he does that. A lot

  • it depends

  • a couple of times if she seems interested

  • If she's not replying then stop doing it..

  • Once every two weeks. You don't want to seem creepy

  • once or twice so you know she got it then no more and get her number

  • Once and get her number through there..I know many people who don't spend all that much time on Facebook so don't do it a lot.

  • You should message her often.