Saying I love you. Here is what I think after reading several answers.
I didn't realize we were such a fairy tale culture. you know, everything shouldnt change just because of those three words, and yet they do. Now even not saying them is supposed to mean something. Maybe some people aren't so sentimental and believe the most important things should be felt never said. maybe saying it spoils them. Maybe they should be said in other ways, like in actions and in clues so that it is so endearing and important it's never trivialized.
Just tell her first, but don't expect her to say it back right away, although she might!
never, ever ever ever ever! never ask a girl, I've had that done to me before and it is such a huge turn off, it is SOOOOOOOOO confusing aswell. if you love her and want to know if she loves you too, JUST TELL HER. I swear, ask her if she loves you and she will just think you are playing games with her.worst move you could ever ever make.
Wait until the guy says he doesn't love you (after saying he did years ago when perhaps "prompted") then call him four years later and ask him if it was for sex or love and when he says it was for sex you admit for the first time that he is the only person you've ever loved in your life. That's what I did!
Never ask her if she lover you, she will tell you when she is ready. Also before saying "i love you" actually think about if you really mean it as its 3 little words that should not be said lightly. Often love and lust can be confused!
tell her how you feel and wait for her answer.
When she's ready and comfortable to tell you she will. Also, just because she hasn't said so, doesn't mean she doesn't love you. She could just be unsure, or not ready with herself to openly say so. But if you love her, go ahead and say so! It may open the door for her to say the same ;D
Tell her that you love her when you feel like its right. If she really loves you than she will tell you she loves you when it is the right time.
awwww. just tell her that you love her and if she at least cares about you then everything will be ok. and in time she will love you back I'm sure
By the second date no later then the third __
Bottom Line!.never put a time and date on when you should say the "L" word!.When you feel it say it!.Don't make things harder by trying to determine when its right and when its not? If you are in love.SAY IT!.Everything else goes from there.
Instead of asking if she loves you, maybe you should just tell her you love her. 6 months in my opinion is a good time, a little on the late side, but safe.
Why ask when you can just tell her and go from there
dont ask her if she loves you! If you love her tell her that in person. And watch her reactiona dn what she says. Her face will give you a clue on how she is feeling when you tell her that you love her. Good Luck!
Depends on the girl.Some fall for guys really fassttt & some dont.
Don't ask her if she loves you. wait for her to truly feel and then she'll tell you. You should tell her when you truly feel it, but don;t get to pushy with her. Let her take things at her own pace!
On the third day I was with my boyfriend he told me he loved me(we have know each other for 3 years prior to going out). I was like wow.ummmmm.
But we still go out and I totally love him and I told him so!
if someone asked me "do you really love me?" I would be really put off.
if I said "i love you." I meant it.
if I didn't, but I do, I'll do it on my own time, I don't need or want prompting.
if I don't love him, I won't say it.
do you have another girl you're interested in so you don't waste time on this girl who doesn't love you potentially? wicked. usually after great sex is the right time; any time before that is way too soon. besides girls are simple, least I think, we just want to be around a good uh. well yea a good lover :).
Why do you have to ask her if she loves you. How long should you be dating before you tell her that you love her? That's the question!
You can't put a time on love. You can only express your feelings.
You shouldn't ask this kind of question. I think if you love her like really love her I think you would know when the right time is. You and yourself is the only person who can give you this question.
But I would say 2 three 3 months or when you guys are like totally comfortable with each other.
You don't ask her anything!
You just wait. If she loves you you'll know it. By deeds, actions, a certain look can tell you a lot. But...try telling her you love her...if she says it then great, if she doesn't...she will!
Heh buddy :D
There is no time limit for that.
When the other person really loves the significant other. . . She/He will say it.
If you have to ask it shows doubt on your part. I know with my situation it just blurted out and she said she loved me too. If you really love her just say it. If she say's thank you or OK you know not to bother. But make sure you mean it some women have been through this and heard it all before. Timing is everything.
You should never ask her if she loves you she will say it when she is ready. If you truly love her then tell her that you love her. People use the words I love you way too lightly nowadays though. They just say it because they think they should since they are in a relationship. I love you are very strong words and before you say it you should make sure you really mean it.
Dont acutally ask if she loves you. Just say you love her! its sweeter and doesn't put as much pressure on her.
dude b4 you ever say anything ask her friends and expect them to tell her that you asked that is the only way to run things faster :D just like in high school hahaha
Shouldn't ask, it should be told to you unless you have uncertainty as to what her intentions are. if you ask it comes across as needy and insecure, women hate that, they want a confident man, so act as if she's just GOTTA love you, of course, you expect it
hehe, you won't fall in love during the dating periods dude,how long could dating go on?i guess maximum a month,but love is a hard thing to come by it takes time,now don't confuse love with proximity infatuation.
You don't tell her you love her, wait for her to tell you she loves you, then tell her.
I don't think there is a time limit to start loving someone. It varies. And I don't think asking someone if they really love you is the way to go. You should be able to tell from their actions, or even better, you should hear it too. Just be patient and if everything is going well, you probably won't even have to ask anything.