If you find the right person, marriage is one of the most satisfying and beautiful unions that exists today. Marriage makes you selfless and gives you a reason to better yourself as a person.
No two people are exactly the same and this is where conflicts arise (in every relationship) so of course, there will be plenty of arguments and differences, but you'll end up compromising since you love your spouse.
I would do anything for my spouse, I love him more than myself and value his needs/beliefs even though I may not agree with it.
If you're thinking about popping that question or saying "I do," do it, and here are some reasons why I think marriage is beautiful:
1. It's a secure relationship
You both agreed to this sacred relationship and vowed to be with one another no matter what. You become vulnerable; your partner sees your weaknesses, your flaws, your partner sees you when you fail and when you succeed, your partner sees you at your weakest and your strongest. And they're there with you through it all. You'll always have support. You'll always have that one person who will be there for you.
2. It makes you a better person
As soon as I got married, I changed a lot. I started becoming less selfish and started understanding that there's someone else who I share my life with. I put his needs before mine and strove everyday to become a better version of me, for him. I learned how to cook for him and to do the things that he likes in order to keep him happy. When you love someone, truly, you do things voluntarily to make them happy. He made me a better person in every aspect.
3. You'll always have a cheerleader
No matter what, your spouse will always be your number one cheerleader. They'll support you even if the entire world is against you and knowing that is a great feeling. Knowing you'll never be alone and that someone will always be beside you is amazing.
4. You will always be loved unconditionally
Everyone has their flaws and ugly sides, but your spouse will love you through it all. You fight, scream, cry, but you get over it because you love each other. Even your ugliest of sides won't change the way that your spouse looks at you. Rather, it makes your love grow and blossom. Sometimes, when you're feeling your ugliest, your spouse will make you feel beautiful.
5. Faith, loyalty, and trust
I tell my spouse everything and he tells me everything, too. I love waking up next to him, seeing that beautiful face, and knowing that I'm so lucky to know every inch of him that other people wished that they know. You feel like you've become one with this person and love them more. You can trust your spouse with everything and depend on them to be loyal and faithful no matter what.
if you were to put my spouse in a room full of attractive women, I would trust him.
6. A secure family, household, and relationship
It's great knowing that your spouse will stand by you no matter what. Marriage isn't a relationship that most people easily walk out of; it's a huge commitment. It's a great feeling knowing that you can go home to your spouse, to a secure household, and that one day, you'll raise kids in a secure home.
Marriage is beautiful. It's underrated, but to me, one of the best relationships that you can have. I could keep going about why it's so beautiful and why you should consider it but my hands are tired!
Hope you got something from this myTake.