I know, most people want to get married one day to their significant others. I want to get married one day as well. However I only want to get married so I can have my own biological children. Here are reasons why. I'm a straight man by the way.
1.) I'm convinced that women don't find men physically attractive
Yes, you've all read my previous takes and questions. It seems that the only guys women are attracted to are the feminine looking guys. Women don't find masculine men physically attractive.
2.) Women find other women better looking than men overall
I posted a poll that confirmed this. No matter how much I love a woman, I doubt she will love me as much as I love her. When my future wife walks into the befroom I'll be thinking "oh wow, you're so beautiful" while she probably won't care when I walk into the bedroom. She'll simply think "oh there's my husband". I know that she will find women better looking than me.
3.) She'll probably be checking out women when we are in public
If we go to a mall, she'll be ogling every woman that walks by, while I'll simply pay attention to her. No matter how physically attractive I find my wife, I know she'll never find me physically attractive.
4.) When we have sex, she probably won't be turned on by the way I look
No matter how fit and how handsome my face is, she won't be sexually aroused by the way I look. She'll probably only be thinking about my personality or how much skill I have in bed. This means that she will probably be submissive in bed which I don't like. I prefer being the submissive one in bed. While I will be sexually aroused by the way she looks.
5.) She'll probably only like me for my personality
That's not good enough for me, I've politely rejected various women because I had a feeling that they only liked me for my personality. I've heard women say "oh I like how he carries himself, it's so hot." That's a turn off. So basically they are saying that they only like men for their personalities.
6.)What if she thinks I look feminine
I consider myself a masculine looking guy. My facial and body structure is very masculine but I worry that she will only like me because she thinks I look feminine.. This worries me because a lot of girls have called me cute and adorable before. I know those are words used to imply femininity. I do a lot of strength training to look more masculine.
7.) I wonder if she'll actually love me
I know that I will love my wife but will she actually love me? Will she be able to form a emotional bond with me? I know I'll form a emotional bond with her.
These are the reasons why I plan on getting married only to have kids. Of course I'll stay with my future wife, I'm not going to divorce her. I know that my children will need both parents living together, so they can have a happy childhood. What I'm saying is that I know I'll love my wife but I'm not sure if she'll love me. I hope my future wife loves me and is 100% straight.
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