Okay, so I consider myself to be fairly attractive and intelligent,( I keep hearing this from friends) but after a breakup of a 5 year relationship I feel like I am really lost in this game. I go to my friends parties but it seems like I am just sitting on the couch drinking the night away. Once in a while I will talk to some girls but it seems though in the middle of every conversation I can tell that they are not really interested and it is pretty awkward for me. I wasn't born here, have an accent and it seems that I just don't have something they are looking for? Any ideas?
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Maybe you don't show enough interest in them, that's why they are trying to run away in the middle of the conversation? I know I will happily stick around someone if he fully engages with what I'm saying, even if I don't fancy them at first. Or maybe some girls feel insecure around you? Just a thought. I don't think your accent would have anything to do with it. If anything that probably makes you more intriguing.1