I will try to keep short and brief
My husband has been going through legal issues and maybe facing jail time for 20 years. He has become abusive in my opinion. He has anger yells throws things has bruised me etc
I try to talk to him but to no avail. He won't talk about it (feels he isn't treating me wrong) and has taken his ring off too (this the fourth time)
Last night he tried to have sex with me I said no. He sent me a text message saying he's seen my true colors and Insinuated I'm cheating on him.
It's almost 2am and he hasn't come home yet.
Someone please tell me what to do. I don't want to fight anymore. He speaks down to me (says things like get your ass home girl and take care of these kids)
I try to stand up for myself but now I feel he is being spiteful
Please married people help me what do I do? I have pictures of my bruises still. I'm afraid to get him in more trouble.
I have 3 kids. And he moved me away from my family. We have been married for six years
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It sounds like you are looking for an answer that will make your life with him better. Can't give you one, because I cannot see your life getting better as long as it is with him. It is unfortunate that you have invested so much time with him and that you have three kids. Because he is headed away from you. legal issues and probable jail time will likely take him away physically, but emotionally he is not into you now, either. He is abusive, both physically and emotionally. And he is getting worse.
You need to be speaking with someone who can advise you in matters that will protect you while making life better. If you belong to a church, spiritual counseling should be available. And for other matter, I hope someone on here can refer you to a website that has people you can call for advice on getting away. Having the kids complicates your options.
Guys don't usually magically turn into monsters overnight. There have probably been signs for a long time. Probably even before you married. And then more signs before your first kid, and more after that. If so, you have ignored them until the problem has grown into a monster.2