I for example could not tolerate any cheating because it just makes me sick, people told me that i should learn to be forgiving but i can't. Not in case of adultery. I mean why go into counseling if you can find someone else. I would forgive a fling but nothing long term, i am very cold unfortunately. Also if one partner doesn't keep his vows why should the other?
Most Helpful Guy
I think that people should learn to forgive, married or not. The problemm is that American society is very "holier than thou", very judgmental.
I've been cheated on.The first time I was really hurt, dumped her, she asked me to forgive, we restarted. The second time I got over it, but I lost illusions. The third time I considered it was over between us but I stayed since she needed help and she wasn't a bad girl. The fourth time I let her go, without anger. Between 1st and last time a huge indifference had built up. I still don't hate her.0
- Show AllShow Less