This obviously isn't something I've ever wanted to deal with. We've been married for 4 years now, no kids still and found out through messages she had an ongoing affair lasting for about 6 months.
She's been remorseful since but I've been thinking about having my own fun too as the only way to make it work out. I think this makes more sense. She sure wasn't thinking about me during that time so when I do it, I'm not going to think about her either.
I'm thinking about having a ONS seriously. Now I really want to see what it must have felt like for her to get pleasure elsewhere.
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I believe in an eye for an eye, but we both know she won't feel the same if you decide to cheat back on her, she's mentally prepared for you to do it.
You, on the other hand, were not ready for it when she did it. That's why it hurts so much.
It's gone dude, just divorce and walk away. It's your best option at this point.0