I know that I am marrying him, and not his parents...his mother and father are divorced and therefore don't live together. I cannot stand either of them. His mother is very annoying and nosy and his father is a cheapskate. It is so hard to be happy about our upcoming wedding when I know how little either of them are doing to help. My fiance and I come from different backgrounds, I get that. But it is very hard and I'm just worried that once we are married the tension will remain. I am hoping that once we get out into our own house, we will have the space and distance to help prevent this, but I just wanted some opinions. Anyone else have similar issues?
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I can tell you from My own experience that things may Not change. You either have to do some serious soul searching before you walk down the aisle, have a long talk with your fiance about this tight rope tension Or-----Forever hold your peace.
Now that you have 'Met the parents' and know what you are in for, welcome to his family. It's up to you and your soon-to-be hubby just how Much 'space and distance' can be 'Prevented' in order to Not always have to-----Meet Up with the parents.