i just giving birth my first baby girl and she's 3 months now i really care about her more than anything else. The problem is that my husband mad at me i don't know why. Before two day ago i was really tired after taking car about my baby and when i went to the bed my husband jumped on the top of me and he started to kiss me and i told him that I'm really tired and i can't do this now and he became mad and i don't remember because i slept. In the morning he was waiting for me and he started to kiss me...etc and i remembered my daughter and i just jumped to her room and i told him that i have to change her clothes because she was crying and he said ok :( and this is happening everyday until yesterday we were watching the TV and he started to kiss me and hold my hands and i kissed him and everything was perfect until my daughter cried and i left him to cheque if she's fine and i went to him in the livingroom and i was carrying her and he was silent i asked if he's fine or not? and i apologised to him and he shout loudly saying (( we are living in hell since you born this damn baby! You only care about her more than anything else! We can't can't sleep at night we can't have sex like before because you're always busy with her everyday for over 3 months i didn't even touch you). He made her cry and i told him honey I'm so sorry we really need to discuss everything together tomorrow. He said ( tomorrow again! She's cry everytime i try to touch you or during our making out! What the hell is that!!!) i was trying to make him clam down but i couldn't he was really angry and he left the house since yesterday and he's avoiding my calls i talked to his friend and he said that my husband is fine but he still angry and need to be alone for a while. And i was happy because he's fine but I'm still shocked after yesterday and i don't know what to do.
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Sounds like he just flipped. I wouldn't take it too seriously.
A lot of guys get frustrated at the lack of sexual drive or attention they receive from their woman after a baby is born. It's stupid and shitty, but it sounds like that's what's happening here.
He's kind of acting like a selfish douche, but he's got needs too, I suppose. A quick blowjob here or there when the baby's sleeping would probably go a long way to keeping him from feeling neglected.
But he's got to understand that newborn babies need lots and lots of attention. Things will get better as the baby gets a little older and starts to sleep for longer periods of time, but he needs to have patience.1
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