I find that in the beggining of a relationship guys want the relationship and are addicted to you. In a few months they get distant and even if you guys stay together and are happy its never the same.
What keeps a guy engaged and interested in a you even if you are married?
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In general, you have to show that you are constantly progressing towards a new goal.
Seeing the same person in the same chair at the same time every day when you walk in the door is an example of a tiresome routine, because on a subconscious level, you feel that your life is not progressing. No progress in a world that is constantly changing can build up anxiety and make you crave something new. So don't be close minded to new experiences, and don't be afraid to pick up hobbies that you both enjoy.3