Help me come up with a list of topics to cover with your significant other before considering engagement, a la this article: offbeatbride.com/2013/05/tough-conversations
Because I like lists.
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1) Who will handle the money? How will your budget be figured out? Do you both agree on how it will work? Who is the spender? Who is the saver?
2) Kids. Do you want them? How many do you think you want? How soon do you think you want to try them?
3) Where will you live? Near family? If so, whose? If not, where?
4) How will you handle holidays? Thanksgiving/Christmas/Easter are usually the biggest... you need to figure out how it will work.
5) Sex. Who needs it more? How will you negotiate it?1