Spend $40k of my parents money on the wedding prep
Don't know what to do now.
There's nothing wrong with him. I just can't handle the commitment/ staying with one person forever.
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Call it off, even if you have to run away and leave town for the day.
It might seem like a lot of money, but it's only money. There's more at stake here than just money.
Divorces aren't cheap either, and will change your life for the worse. Even if you loved him like crazy and really believed in this marriage, there'd still be almost 50% chance that you'd begin to despise him within a few years and be looking for a divorce. Women will do that to the best of men, and quite often.0