I'm getting married in a couple weeks and my fiancé dropped the bomb on me! The asshole told me that he cheated on me 3 times in the beginning of our relationship. And that one of those girls was one of his female friends who I actually let it my home COUNTLESS F*CKING TIMES!!! (mind you we have been together for 3 years and 4 months)
He told me he's letting me know now because he wanted us to have a clean slate for when we got married and its been eating him alive. I punched him in the face and walked out the room in tears!!! I'm so angry!! And now I'm having doubts about getting married!!! I can't even trust him anymore! One of my friends said its way overdue and I should forgive him! But I'm so hurt!!! I don't know wtf to do!
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To me it not over due the whole relationship was build on lies. While your
Being faithful and he wasnt. Ok it was in the begining doesn't matter to me is that the real truth I don't know he now telling you when your wedding in 3 weeks? Like now he feeling guilt not before. To me you have a right to drop him or to make it work it on you what do you want honesty I would leave sure he told you so some people may think that great but to me he didn't really do you a favor but finally have the balls to be truthful. But you'll be thinking way to much on this and wondering everything if you stay and go tho marriage in 3 weeks if you really want to stay with him id post pone that wedding asap and see if you can make it work or drop him all together and get a real man that deserves you. It not late to be mad and go tho your feelings at all. It ok to cry and make a big deal out of it. Plus he friends with one of the girls yea that would fly by me at all. So dont let your friends say you need yo forgive ypu dont need to until you go tho the emotions and the phase. Sure you should forgive but not for h for your self and let go doesn't have to be at this moment.0
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