We met online.
Met real life 5 months later. was great.
kept in touch, kept in love, made future plans. HE spoke of marriage I just smiled waiting for the official proposal day.
He suddenly got silent in year 3 and that's when I found out he was married but in the middle of a divorce. we broke up (duh) for 8 months. He is now officially divorced and somehow we fell back into our long distance relationship meeting every few months where he confesses his undying love and need for me.
Ok so.. At my age, +30 group, I had to talk about marriage.
He told me how much he loved me and that he was just waiting for a more steady job and didn't want to make any empty promises (followed up by a kiss and tears from him). He 'reassured' me that we are in a committed relationship. Umm he is financially secured and every job he has had in the past 6 years has been top exec positions. I really do believe he loves me as much as I do love him. But, damn... my gut is not so convinced.
So, let's take bets. Who thinks he will propose someday and who thinks he is just dragging me along for company?
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Well he lied to you for three years...are you sure he's divorced now?
Yo know what you don't need to have a steady job to get married if you really wanted to get married because you love the person it doesn't matter how much you spend on it...Why aren't you at least engaged with a date so you have something to work towards even if its a year or so away,you know?
You say he's finacially secure anyway so I think it sounds like nonsense-its the fact that he's already lied to you for years,(AND his wife at the time).
Nah,sorry,dont buy it.
Just mho but if he loved you he would of left his wife from the get-go and done things properly,but its never that black and white I know...but now he shouldnt be coming up with these excuses.
I think he is stringing you along,unless youve seen proof of it id be suprised if he was even divorced,and I think you should find way better..At least,if it were me id be long gone..ALWAYS listen to your gut feeling its very rarely,if ever,wrong.
I hope for you I'm wrong.3