I am from Pakistan. Here dating is not a common thing. I've that the people of Countries like America, Brazil, Europe, Do sex without getting married. they enjoy there life then why people marry each other?
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Sex before marriage is overrated, and often comes with consequences such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. We have condoms, birth control, and abortion here to help with that, but it doesn't seem to do much. I've known several girls who got pregnant when the guy was wearing condoms, and she was using birth control. Condoms break, and birth control pills are not very effective. Most women here are pro-choice and believe in abortion up until they get pregnant. I've noticed a lot of women get pregnant and suddenly become extremely pro-life.
When you are married to one person, and only have sex with that one person, you don't won't be as likely to catch a sexually transmitted disease. Also, if the woman gets pregnant, they can both work together to provide and care for the child. A lot of women unfortunately get pregnant by men who don't want to be fathers, and even with government assistance such as food stamps, welfare, and child support payments from the father, a lot of them have a hard time. It is also hard for a single mother to discipline a young man; for example when he hits puberty, they are bigger and stronger than the mother at that point. So a lot of young men and women who grow up raised by a single mother have problems later on in life due to the absence of a good father.
Most people here only get married after they've already had kids, and they realize that being promiscuous does not work. Liberals and Feminists teach young women that they should sleep around, that having sex with a lot of men empowers them. Sadly they find out that it doesn't empower them, in fact they are often giving away the only power they have to men who won't care for them or their children later on. I think the more traditional view on marriage is better for men, women, and children. With promiscuity a lot of men end up lonely, a lot of women end up as single mothers, and a lot of children grow up poor in unstable homes.2
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