We go married a few years ago and my husband is becoming more and more selfish every day. Whether it's respecting things I care about or wanting to do things I enjoy or even in bed, I feel like they always come after what he wants.
Should I read into that as he doesn't love me anymore or is that a side effect of most marriages? What can I do to make my husband stop being so selfish?
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I think you need to stop thinking about it and come straight out and say, without being angry but very calmly. That this was not how it used to be and you dont like it.
Many people go into a relationship or marriage and think that now they can freewheel. Well, where is that freewheeling going but downwards.
The secret of all relationship problems is calm communication and saying exactly what you dont like and what you do like. Calmly, without argument just say you are unhappy with the way he is.
Maybe there is something he doesn't like. But a divorce nobody likes and that is where you are going unless you communicate in a calm and understanding way.
Change how you behave in a nice way and he will change. But dont be a doormat. Be the girl he first met. Talk to him about past events that were really good, your enjoyment and how he made you feel.0