I'm 18 thinking of getting married at 20 or 21 but I wanna start looking now to get comfterable with her and to see who will be my wife. R there girls that r gunna wanna to get married that early? I mean I'll still let her do what ever she wants like study and all that. I know for u guys it's a little young for me but this is something that has been past on in my family. We get married early.. So how do I find the girl who's willing to get married?
How do I find a girl who I wanna merry?
What Girls Said 4
Just a piece of my thought: That depends on why you want to get married. You mentioned above that it was past on in your family but that doesn't mean you should just get married early or be pressured into it. IT IS ULTIMATELY YOU ARE THE ONE MARRYING, NOBODY SHOULD MAKE SUCH IMPORTANT DECISION FOR YOU!!! IT IS YOUR HAPPINESS AT RISK HERE!! My dear, trust me it is not that difficult to find someone you are attracted to and say yes to your proposal. But to maintain a healthy marriage isn't easy (esp in days like this where the term marriage is undervalued) even you might not but how sure is the other party holds on to the same value as you? Don't target to get marry so early even if that is what you wish for. Aim to find the lady of your dream that you will love, and love you back and willing to walk through thick and thin with you. Get to know her longer, better before you make this commitment. it ain't just a piece of paper and ceremonies and parties.
Well to answer the question above, mail order bride is an easy option, no guarantee it might work out. Or just know more ladies at the right place keep looking. Wish you good luck on this. cheers :)0
To me this isn't early. Its perfect. Im 19 and I wouldn't mind marrying at 21. But i definitely wanna marry by or before 25. You should find a down to earth girl who talks about her future a lot. Those are usually the type who plan to marry earlier and stuff. Good Luck :)0
There are. Look for brown girls.1
What Guys Said 1
Life rarely complies with your timetable.
Due to poor life choices I am 35 and single. That doesn't mean there isn't a woman out there for me. But you must wait... And be matured. Are you willing to wait? It takes a real man to realize how not ready he truly is, and to take the steps to become a man and take up his burden.0
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