He's been drifting from me for years now. but lately my husband has been soooo unbelievably mean! I always believe its never ONE person's fault but BOTH people are at fault in a marriage and I'm done with being miss mary sunshine all the time. I bake for all his friends at work on b days to make HIM look good, if that makes sense, I buy him little gifts here and there to make him know how special he is and how thankful I am of his hard work. I try to look very pretty have the kids happy and trained for him, and he treats me bad! today I didn't park where he wanted to, because I SUCK at parking and didn't want to make an arce out of myself infront of his friends, so I parked a bit away where I was more comfortable not hitting cars or people for that matter and he yells at me, slams the door and shouts "What a B!tch" really loud then when we were getting stuff at a store he got mad because I parked TOO closeto the next car, gets out slams the door and calls me an asshole, while he was in there he didn't know I could see but he was flirting with the girl at the desk! leaning over her desk and all! I asked him later on when I was calm and he got all p*ssed at me then I asked what wrong why is he in such a bad mood and he got mad again... bad days are acceptable, name calling, NOT acceptable! WHY the heck would he be treating me like this? What should I do? (no he's not stressed and I don't think he's cheating, if that helps) Thank you in advanced
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Whew...I could feel your painful position in that question. How long have you been married? Too long? He's treating you like he'd like you gone and it seems clear from your words that he doesn't think so highly of you. Too bad. Not sure how deep to probe on this website. Does he have any guy griends that you can speak to away from him? Does he insist on getting together with single guys regularly? The flirting with other girls is really a separate point, only supporting that he is not an assh_le to every girl. Losing his temper about parking? Who gives a hoot about parking? Still... what a piece of work.