Its not an arranged marriage like say in India the women can reject the instant marriage proposals. its like this in my culture too in Kurdistan you talk to your father or mother and they talk to the woman's parents and ask for their son to marry their daughter. In other words the man's parents ask if he could marry the woman you want and talk to that woman's parents for you. Or you just ask the woman's parents if you could marry her.
Most Helpful Girl
My parents got married within a month or something stupid like that. Been married 43 years now.
My dad says any relationship will work out if both people can learn to adjust and adapt.
For me, no. Not gonna happen. It's gotta be a year or two minimum. Just aspects of friends and families, and my own parents marriages frighten me away from making any sudden decisions. I don't want to ever divorce, and I need to know I won't be in an unhappy marriage for 40/50 years.0
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Sounds pretty good to me.0