Who is more at fault the man or the girl?
I know both are but I don't get why people blame the girl more..
- The dirty married guyVote A
- The whoreVote B
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If the girl believed they'd seperated (as you said to others) then it's his fault for knowlingly cheating on his wife and lying to the other woman. If the girl believed they were seperated, then it's not her fault for sleeping with a guy that she (probably) thought she was in some kind of relationship with. I don't think the pregnancy changes the morality of what happened.
Also, looking at the results I dont think people blame the woman. If they do its either because:
A.) They know the guy and dont want to blame him. I'd say its easier to believe your husband is an idiot and the other woman is a 'whore' (as you said) than to believe your husbands a dick.
B.) They want to move on but the pregnancy stops that. It's like she's holding the proof of what happened. Whenever people see her they are reminded of what happened so they get angry at her (shooting the messenger).
Its not fair obviously on the girl (or the child) but its an unfortunate emotional reaction to an unfortunate emotional situation.2