Is it better to marry young (30)?
- It's better to marry young. Before 25 years of age.Vote A
- It's better to marry old. After 30 years of age.Vote B
- Other (please elaborate)Vote C
- I want to see the reults/ I don't know the answer to this questionVote D
Is it better to marry young (before 25) or old (after 30)?
Most Helpful Girl
I voted young. I personally want kids young (I want to have my first before I'm 27) so that probably skewed my vote significantly.
I want to be done having babies by the time I'm 34 at the absolute latest and then you have to think what if you have trouble conceiving? Doctors usually won't really look at you until you've tried for at least a year, then it can take another year to figure out what's wrong with you, then a whole year of pregnancy BAM before you know it you're 30. I want 2-3 kids spaced 18 months-3 years apart so yeah... it's already going to be an extremely tight squeeze with me waiting until 27 if anything is wrong fertility wise so I just want to prepare for the worst and start as early as I can financially.
At the same time I don't want to be that couple that gets married and starts trying to get pregnant immediately after. I want to enjoy married life without kids for 2 or more years before I start popping out babies as well.
So yeah, I'd prefer to get married around 22-25, spend some time with my husband for a while without kids, travel the world a little, then start having babies1