this girl I know is engaged and about to get married she always tells me how happy she is and that she loves him but when I see her we do sexual stuff I mean I did everything with her is this wrong? should the guy know before he marries her? why is she being such a slut? and coming on to me
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As I don't know this girl's personality, I think it is one of two things. She is doing this to clarify to herself what she really wants before making a big decision, that's if she thought about it before doing it. If she didn't really think about it in this way, I think that's just her personality and her own social morals, wanting to meet her sexual needs from you and not considering the value of her other deeper relationship. People can cheat whether engaged to be married, married or just in a usual relationship, it's all about who they are as a person and what drives their wants selfishly.
I personally believe the other guy she is engaged to has a right to know what she has been doing with you, since she has made an agreement to him through initiating a relationship to be honest and at least faithful pre-marriage in the engaged stage. Being engaged and involving commitment is very serious, if she wants her needs to be met this way she should be single and by all means not deserve cheating the stability of a strong relationship.
Asking if this is wrong: I believe this to be wrong, other people like herself may not, but I see this as pure disrespect for her partner and I'm sure most people who value the commitment of relationships would agree with that also.
Why is she being such a slut? Because she is human, we are selfish in different ways and this girl is being selfishly unfair sexually and indeed morally against her partner. I suggest you reconsider fulfilling your sexual needs from her and ending this before or incase the other guy finds out, which would be an even worse scenario.1