my husband and i had an argument about him going to the strip club. i told him i dont think he belongs there because he is a married man. i am not trying to control him its just because i know the crazy things that goes on at a strip club. example.. giving girls money, hooking up with strippers and getting lap dance and dick suck etc. i would rather him come home and spend quality time with me other than hanging out there. we had and argument and he went in the kitchen and pulls out a knife behind my back. i was scared for my life , i scream and cry so hard and almost run out the house. he have 2 smalls babies in the house too. he did this several times to me whenever he have an argument. he runs for the kitchen knife and i have to lock myself in the room. he told me he love me and he would never do it again. he also said he was just trying to scare me he wouldn't dare hurt me. but i dont know if i should trust what he is saying. he tells me he can't handle stress when we are arguing. no matter how bad an argument gets i dont think u should pull a knife on your partner.. please give me your opinions ladies and gents.. thank you!
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Then leave. It's actually quite selfish of you to force two children to grow up in that environment. If you want to stay with an abusive man, that's you're choice, but do the right thing and let your kids live somewhere more stable. You are choosing to be there, they have no say. Women who stay with abusive men, it's stupid, butif they want to sstay that's their problem, when they bring kids into the situation it's also the kids problem through no fault or choice of their own. That is really selfish. That's the example of a man you want your kids to have? Sons to grow up thinking it's ok to abuse women, and daughters who think it's ok for their partners to abuse them, because who not, mummy and daddy did it.
I care much more about your kids in this situation than care about you. As I said, you have chosen to stay with an abusive man, they didn't choose that, you are forcing this on them.
If you care anything about those kids, go get them from their rooms and take them somewhere safe to live where they don't need to witness this. You go away with them if you want, but if you don't want to go away from this guy, at least don't force your kids to be in it.4