I've often thought women want marriage so much that when they meet someone, even if they aren't ideal for them, they want to get married. But then some people claim to know virtually from the start within the first year that this person was who they wanted to marry. Do you think marriage is realized early in the relationship? Or that it takes longer like 5-7 years?
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2 years is more than enough time. Like all living things, they either grow or they die, relationships are no different. I would recommend Michael Webb's book 1000 questions for couples, it's broken up into categories that help define each personality section of a successful relationship, many found their soul mates this way and others were saved a ton of time. It's about personal compatibility and flexibility, you and him would have to decide if you can accept the other's independent thoughts and actions. If something answered honestly doesn't match with you and is a deal breaker, such as not wanting kids or not being interested in marriage for example, then you'll know by way of these questions. Hope this helps. :)0