I feel that marriage is a commitment to God and feel you should respect it and value it. Its not just a legal bond to me its way deeper than that. With that being said does God bring you closer? Do you feel a deeper connection. I think you should if both people see marriage the way it should be seen and take their vowels seriously. I'm asking because I'm in a relationship and I feel my conscious is speaking to me telling me I need to marry instead of shacking up. Recently he asked me to marry him and said he felt the same.
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It's not sudden. But the bond has grown stronger over our marriage (nearly 18 years now).
I do think people should generally wait a little bit before getting married - 2 years is pretty good - so they'll generally be over the initial crush stage in the first place. But life brings many more opportunities to get to know your mate in a variety of circumstances.0