Not as in being married to multiple people, but being married to one person because you've fallen in love with them but still open honestly both of you enjoying sleeping with other people as well. (?)
For me, it's really the only marriage I would be in.
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While there is no conclusive evidence to state whether humans should be monogamous or polygamous, I prefer monogamy. I understand that there are people who prefer polyamorous relationships, kudos to them, but it is not for me. :(
I put too much attachment to sex, for me it (cheesy, corny, etc.) but like an expression of love. I know there are other ways, but I see it as a "connect" (I guess) of souls or something. I can't explain it. Kinda like a spiritual sense. And no, this isn't like "I can make you see god" or me just screaming "oh god, oh god, oh god". But I mean like it has more attached to it for me, than just sex. And no, I am not religious. I'm atheist.
I understand that this is just me, not many people put so much attachment to sex and can easily separate it from love.
More power to the people who can find a relationship to work for them. If you and your partner are on board, then be happy and continue with that.
But I know for me, I wouldn't be able to. I prefer monogamy.
I cannot explain this attachment that I put to sex. But this picture pretty much shows what I mean. And yes, it's corny and cheesy and lame. I am also a hopeless romantic though:
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