Is sex imp before marriage OR after Marriage
Most Helpful Girl
Here is my total full on opinion. I am a very sexual person. I'll be 24 in a few months and I'm still a virgin. I actually plan to be til I get married. With that said I am by no means the virgin mary. I get horny just like everyone else. And just because I'm a virgin doesn't mean that I haven't done other things. Because I have. I think its better to at least wait til your in a monogomous relationship to have sex if you can. But if you are going to have sex then follow this rule:
Treat the decision to have sex like a business in this way: When you go and get hired at a new job they put you on a 90 day probation. The reason they do this is because they want to get a chance to view your performance. They want to make sure that you're honest, reliable, consistant, and that you can be counted on. They want to make sure that you're a good fit for the job before they give you all the perks and benefits that the job has to offer. Same thing when dating. Get to know him first. You need to find out weather or not he's honest, reliable, consistant, and that he is able to be counted on by you. You need to know all these things first before you start handing out the "benefits and perks." That way if he does turn out to be a lemmon then at least you didn't sleep with him. And if he is a keeper then it will make the experiance that much better and you'll be less likely to regret it.
And by the way I did get all this from a bunch of guys. They said they respect a girl that will make them wait and make them work for it.2