Some of the reasons they list for marrying the wrong person:
-We don't understand ourselves or our partner
-We look for someone who gives us the same feelings we had in our childhood rather than someone who makes us happy.
-We dislike being single
-We think "love at first sight" is good enough
-We think we can "freeze" the feelings we currently have for them by marrying.
-We think our relationship is the exception.
-We're tried of the heartbreak of the dating scene.
Is there one reason that seems to hold more weight to you than the others?
Have you personally experienced any of these?
Do you agree that people should take compatibility and or psychological tests before marrying?
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Yes... chidhood feelings & not knowing ourselves or partner... DEFINITELY need high quality premarital counseling/testing!!!1