Not that I am in any hurry. My bf loves me and has a desire to get married and believes I might be the one for him. However he is all about enjoying his 20s right now. However he only has 4 years till the big 30. I am wondering how to get him to be talking about marriage with me. Like what makes a man want to marry his girl. What does he have to realize or experience or etc. to think I should marry her... Your thoughts please
How to get a guy to have a desire to pursue a more committed future; possibly marriage?
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He must be ready and feel you're perfect material for a wife (according to my brother and his girlfriend of 5 years) he won't purpose to her because she is not yet "wife material," however he does plan to marry her once she is... marriage is a huge commitment and is extremely hard decision as you can't just break up, it takes a few years to divorce, so most men (according to my brother, boyfriend and father) want to be 100% sure that she is cut out for him every morning, the rough days, children, necessities as well as mentally.0
He has to feel like he's with the right girl and be ready for marriage. It sounds like he's already pretty sure about you so now it's just a matter of him feeling like he's ready for marriage and for a lot of guys that doesn't happen until they're a little closer to 30. Give him some time & don't pressure him. In another year if he hasn't brought up marriage, just lightly bring up the discussion and ask him how he feels about it and if he's any closer to feeling ready.0
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