Ok So . Making this straight to the point.
Me and my boyfriend been together for five years almost. we jus had a child who is 5 months now and now im thinking we should get married. he loves me. I love him. He says he dont wna get married right now because were to young. But yet we just had a child and we are gna raise that child together and I dont feel comfortable dealing with his problems and Im not married to him..so I broke up with him.
Who right and whos wrong?
Am I the bad guy here? Or is he just a jerk? Help plz!
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Marriage is a very complicated thing to discuss. Both of you are entitled to want something, marriage included. Also, neither of you are wrong when it comes to this. He stayed with you, which shows he is loyal and willing to stick by your side. However, he is not required to marry you. You wanted to sanctify your relationship through marriage, which is also completely valid.
You two need to discuss this further. Don't let something like this come between you. Not wanting to be married immediately because of age is a very valid concern, and his worries and views must be taken into account. Simply fathering a child does not warrant the immediate toll of wedding bells. Marriage is a lifelong commitment that is not to be taken lightly.2