And if this happens against the girl's wish to go slow in the relationship, is this a red flag?
GIRLS: If a guy proposes after a month and you're not ready, what would you do?
What Girls Said 8
I would say "no i'm not ready"? lol And it would be a bit of a red flag, I wouldn't take someone who got that attached so quickly, very seriously.0
I wouldn't think it would be a red flag if he had asked me to marry him within a month. I would decline it, and tell him we have all the world to be together. Why are we rushing for?0
I'd tell him i am flattered, but we need to enjoy getting to know each other more. If he went against my wishes and wouldn't go slow, then i would perecive him as controlling.0
1 month of dating?
I would think he's drunk.0
It's way too soon1
"I'm sorry, but I'm not ready."1
What Guys Said 2
I know you said girls, but Imma gonna answer anyway
You're gonna propose after 1 month of dating?
You should propose like 2 years after dating. This is why the divorce rate is like 50% (in the US anyways) People keep rushing into everything2
Dude, after dating only a month, I barely know the girl's name. Slow down on the marriage talk, you're scaring people.2
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